The 3 Elements of Leadership: Are You Using Them to Unleash Your Small Group Leaders? | Ep 66

Ellen Hembree • January 20, 2025

The 3 Elements of Leadership: Are You Using Them to Unleash Your Small Group Leaders? | Ep 66

Empowering Your Youth Ministry Leaders - watch/listen to the podcast here.


In this episode of the Beyond the Youth Room podcast, Ryne and Keith discuss how to effectively resource your small group leaders. They emphasize that the primary goal is not just to have leaders serve, but to see them grow closer to Jesus in the process.


The conversation highlights the importance of setting clear expectations for leaders, holding them accountable, and building strong relationships with them. This "trifecta of effective leadership" ensures that leaders understand their roles, feel supported, and are motivated to serve.


Ryne shares a specific example of how he set the expectation that married couples serve together in his youth ministry. While not a hard and fast rule, this encourages couples to grow together spiritually and provides a valuable support system for leaders.


The podcast concludes with the importance of truly "unleashing" leaders. When leaders feel empowered and trusted, they can effectively lead their small groups, fostering genuine growth and discipleship among the students they serve.

In the next part of this blog post, we'll delve deeper into practical strategies for training, equipping, and supporting your youth ministry leaders.


Ryne emphasizes the importance of challenging leaders to grow. He acknowledges that some ministries may have leaders who are not the ideal fit. In these situations, Ryne recommends:

Prayer: Seeking God's guidance in navigating these challenging situations.

Open Communication: Having honest and constructive conversations with the leaders.

Focus on Growth: Prioritizing the spiritual growth of leaders over maintaining a specific number of volunteers.


Ryne highlights the importance of setting a clear vision for the ministry and trusting that God will provide the necessary leaders to fulfill that vision. He emphasizes that the primary goal is to see leaders grow closer to Jesus, recognizing that this will ultimately make them more effective in their roles.

The podcast concludes with practical tips for empowering small group leaders, including:

Providing clear expectations and guidelines for leading a successful small group. This includes emphasizing the importance of facilitating discussion and asking insightful questions.

Equipping leaders with the necessary resources. This involves providing them with study materials and resources ahead of time to prepare them for their role.

Modeling and encouraging personal growth in leaders. This includes emphasizing the importance of their own spiritual growth and providing resources for their personal development.


By implementing these strategies, you can create a thriving environment where your youth ministry leaders are empowered, equipped, and passionate about making a lasting impact on the lives of students.

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